That the simplest of flowers on the beach in November can make your heart sing, beauty surrounds us you just need to open your eyes.
That children (and new babbies), family, friends, puppies, cats and good food are a real honour to be around, always.
That a good hearty natter with your child on the beach or on Skype, is priceless, all the better if you nearly collapse laughing.
That missing those special folks who should be around but aren't due to stupid illnesses taking them away, or from broken hearts, or old age, or misguided lives or merely just distance, are still loved, if missing for the immedatiate moment.
That each day should be embraced with vigour and laughter, full of adventures.
That negativity in life, is a drain and should leave the building as quickly as possible (like hiccups).
That eating lobster for lunch, on your own, is OK, if a little decadent for a week day, so what if you'll eat from the cupboards for the rest of the month!
That whilst the simple things in life can make your heart sing, (like neeps), a new pot should never be anything but cuddled.
That it's OK to be yourself, be it outrageous, be it modest, be it courageous, be it plain lazy or just be it diffident, just be yourself, its perfect acceptable.
That flowers are the master race.
Oh and finally, that all dogs smell minging (revolting) after you've taken them to the beach, helping them to swin and whilst its not their fault its OK to leave them to dry before letting them on the sofa!